A Coping Strategy for Trauma (Stress and Anxiety Too!)
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What you will learn today is a powerful visualization strategy. STAY WITH ME HERE. I know it may seem, sound and/or feel funny. People tend to feel this way initially. But if you give it a chance you might find that it is a very beneficial strategy to add to your toolbox. First, lets explain how and why it works!
How Visualization Works to Calm the Body
Visualization can "trick" the mind in ways that are highly beneficial. The brain processes imagined experiences much like real ones, which is why visualization can create genuine physical and emotional responses, even when the event isn't actually happening.
The Brain Can’t Tell the Difference Between Real and Imagined Events
When you clearly imagine a scene, the same brain regions activate as if you were truly experiencing it. In cases of stress, anxiety, or trauma, the brain may create or replay a scenario in flashbacks or a full scene. As a result, your body begins to experience uncomfortable sensations like increased heart rate, muscle tension, and sweating as if the scene is really happening in the moment.
However, this process also works in positive ways. Picturing yourself on a tranquil beach can induce relaxation comparable to physically being there. The brain responds to this imagery by reducing stress hormones, slower breathing, relaxed muscles, and stabilized heart rate. Creating a sense of safety, even during distressing moments. This occurs because the nervous system doesn't always distinguish between real and imagined events, reacting similarly to both.
Rewiring the Stress Response
Trauma can heighten the brain's sensitivity to danger, keeping it in a prolonged state of alertness. Visualization offers a method to retrain the brain to focus on safety and calmness instead of perceived threats. Consistent practice can diminish the frequency and intensity of trauma-related symptoms, helping individuals regain control over their emotions and bodily reactions.
Strengthening Neural Pathways
Regularly visualizing a safe, calm place strengthens the neural pathways in our brain associated with safety and relaxation. This reinforcement of positive mental states makes it easier over time to transition from stress responses to regulated states, enhancing emotional control and resilience.
Is This Relief "Fake"?
Not at all. Even though visualization is an imagined experience, the bodies physical and emotional reactions to visualization are real. This makes it a valid and effective coping tool. With practice, accessing a state of calm through visualization becomes more natural, supporting long-term emotional well-being.
SAFE PLACE VISUALIZATION: A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE
Trauma can leave us feeling unsafe, overwhelmed, and disconnected from the present moment. Safe Place Visualization is an exercise designed to help you create a mental sanctuary—a space where you feel completely secure, calm, and in control. You can return to this place whenever you need comfort, stability, or reassurance.
TIP: If you find visualization challenging, consider recording yourself reading these steps or listening to a guided meditation that aligns with this practice.
How To Use This Exercise
For best results, find a quiet, comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed. You may sit or lie down, and if it feels safe, close your eyes. If closing your eyes doesn’t feel comfortable, soften your gaze and follow the instructions in a way that works for you.
Step 1: Find a Quiet Spot
Sit or lie down in a comfortable position. Allow your body to relax.
If it feels safe, gently close your eyes. If not, softly focus on a single spot in the room.
Acknowledge that you are taking this time for yourself and that you deserve a moment of peace.
Step 2: Imagine a Place Where you Feel Completely Safe
This place can be real or imaginary—somewhere you've been before or a completely new creation.
It could be a beach, a forest, a cozy cabin, your childhood home, or even a protective fortress.
Choose a place where you feel protected, where nothing and no one can harm you, and where you are entirely in control.
Step 3: Create a Protective Element
Imagine a protective element that keeps this place completely safe.
It could be a force field, a locked door, or a guardian figure that nothing harmful can penetrate.
Remind yourself: "Nothing from the past can enter this space. I am fully protected here."
Step 4: Engage Your Senses in This Safe Place
To deepen the experience, engage all five of your senses by imagining the details of your safe place:
Sight: What do you see? Trees, water, mountains, soft candlelight, a cozy fireplace? Notice the colours and details.
Sound: What sounds are present? Birds singing, waves crashing, a gentle breeze, a crackling fireplace, soft music, or complete silence?
Touch: How does it feel? Are you wrapped in a soft blanket, walking barefoot on warm sand or grass, or sitting on a comfortable chair?
Smell: What scents surround you? Fresh air, flowers, ocean salt, or comforting aromas like vanilla or pine?
Taste: If your safe place includes food or drinks, imagine sipping a warm cup of tea or enjoying fresh fruit.
Step 5: Interact with This Environment
Move around in your safe place. Touch objects, sit or lie down, feel the ground beneath you.
Absorb the peacefulness of this space. Allow yourself to fully experience the comfort and security it provides.
If there's a safe person or animal with you (real or imaginary), notice their presence and the reassurance they bring.
Step 6: Give Yourself a Message of Safety
Repeat calming affirmations to yourself:
"I am safe here."
"Nothing can harm me in this space."
"I am in control."
"I deserve peace."
Step 7: Stay as Long as you Need
There is no rush. Stay in your safe place until you feel calmer and more grounded.
Let the sense of peace settle within you. Know that you can return here anytime.
Step 8: Gently Return to The Present
When you feel ready, start bringing awareness back to the present moment.
Wiggle your fingers and toes and stretch gently.
Slowly open your eyes and take a deep breath.
Step 9: Carry The Feeling of Safety With You
If it helps, draw or write about your safe place in a journal.
Keep a reminder (a small object, a scent, or an image) that represents your safe place.
Use this visualization whenever you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or unsafe.
Final Thoughts
This visualization is a powerful tool for managing stress, anxiety and trauma symptoms and helps in restoring a sense of control and safety. While it is not a substitute for therapy, it can be a valuable practice alongside professional care.
